Saturday, November 27, 2010

Writing Christmas Cards :-)

It's that busy time of year again, time to write out Christmas cards and sent them all around the world to family and friends. Most of the time this is the only mail most of our relatives get from us during the year. I try to send them out to all of our family and friends, but we both have big families and it's hard to keep track of addresses etc. (I printed 300 pictures this year!)

Anyway, I thought it would be a good idea to let Miriam and Dylan choose a pack of 18 cards from Superstore so they could give them to their friends, that way while I was writing my cards, they could write theirs. This sounded like a good plan until I actually tried it... Lately Miriam has been super interested in numbers and letters and how we use them, she kept asking me what I was writing. I asked her if she wanted me to help her write her name, she got super excited and just about jumped off her chair, lol, so I moved to the chair next to hers and showed her how to make an 'M' she made one on her card, then I showed her how to make an 'i' and she wrote that too, I was super duper impressed! We continued until she had written her whole name, she was soo proud, and so was I! 3 1/2 and she can print her own name. :-) The only downside to this was.... that was 1 out of 18 cards and now she wanted to write her name on every card.... that was going to take a while. I asked her if it was ok of I dotted her name on every card and she traced over the dots, she thought this was a great idea, so that's what we did, she also thought it would be a great idea if I dotted her friends names and she traced those too. Needless to say this card writing thing didn't turn out the way I expected it to so - I still have to find some 'free' time to write my cards, but I am super impressed that Miriam wrote 18 card with hers and her friends names on them, she drew some pictures too, all in one sitting! Again, pretty good for a 3 1/2 yr old I think!

Dylan also wrote out some cards and was a tad jelous that I was helping Miriam so much, so I helped him a bit with his cards, but his attention span is far less than Miriam's and he would come and go while we wrote our cards. Below are a few pictures of Miriam and Dylan writing their cards :-)



The first time Miriam wrote her own name all by herself!



Miriam writing her own name! :-)





This one of the one's Miriam traced...


Dylan decided to practice writing with his mouth...lol

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

My Bratty Kids.

I thought I should do a quick post about my bratty kids... ;-)


Matthew and I were having a deep conversation while doing the supper dishes together the other night, the kids were playing ever so quietly, so this was a very rare uninterrupted conversation.
I should have checked what they were up to earlier, (quiet kids usually = trouble) but we hadn't had to break up any fights, or kiss any owies mid sentence. This really was quite a treat to have an uninterrupted conversation, and we were enjoying it! Anyway, after a while Matthew decided to quickly check what they were up to.... well see for yourself...


Dylan coloring the wall....Caught in the act!



Noticing Daddy was getting Miriam in trouble, Dylan quickly put his crayon away...




The Mural...



Dylan quickly trying to clean off the evidence...
(They had even brought a cloth, not sure why, but they did)



While Matthew got Dylan in trouble I asked Miriam to try clean off the wall. She figured out quite quickly that crayon doesn't come off the wall just by wiping it with a cloth :-( She wiped for about 2 mins... and then tried to convince me that this 'picture' was actually something nice, "look Mom a doggie, and some water, and..."



Here are two more pictures of our bratty kids using the tool bench from Nana and Opa...


To sum it all up - My kids are bratty, we took pictures to prove it, and now I have to go to the store, buy a magic eraser, and clean up the mess. :-)
Have a great week everyone!

Friday, November 19, 2010

Tis' The Season

I posted this a few weeks ago on my facebook notes, but I thought I would share it with those who don't have facebook :-) Feel free to comment with your opinion on the season, I like to try to see things from all angles.
(I hope it's ok that I used your pics on here Sherene :-)


Just thought I'd post a note about some Christmas traditions. (As far as I understand most are actually winter solstice traditions and we (Christians) have taken them over and changed what things mean to us).

I think it's important to know where our traditions come from. It's also important to know that these things don't mean the same to us as they used to. (I have never seen a sign in a store by a display of wreaths saying -'hang this on your door to ward off evil spirits')! Traditions change with the times. I personally don't decorate my home with evergreen boughs or trees to ward of evil spirits, and I'm sure you don't either....at least I hope not :-) I decorate with a tree, wreaths, and festive colors because they look nice, same reason I decorate with seasonal things in the fall (leaves, gourds), spring (tulips,), and summer (electric fans) :-) I like my home to look inviting and comfortable for my family and to all who come.

I am also posting this to show my side of the argument about santa clause and sinter klass, they are the same guy! Different country's celebrate him differently. We personally choose not celebrate this mans life, we didn't even know him. Although we do carry on the tradition of giving gifts. It's nice to give and receive gifts, and why not do it when everything is on sale? It's also a nice thing you do with family and friends in December... kinda like getting together for a wiener roast with family and friends in the summer. To me both of those things have the same meaning. To us, gift giving has nothing to do with the actual Christmas celebration, it's just a fun seasonal thing to do.

I personally do not believe that any of these traditions as we celebrate them today are wrong, but we do have to be careful and let those around us know (especially those who do not believe the same) why we celebrate this season, and that it has nothing to do with the origin of most of these traditions we carry on.

Below is an article I found on the internet, there are many, many more there, some a little different from others, but this one, as far as I can tell explains it clearly. I do not claim all info below as fact, because there is more than one theory on some this. I posted this specific article I because I found the stuff about evergreens, Christmas decor, and Santa Clause to be the most accurate from the research I've done. (some of it is just nonsense -the stocking story?-I don't think so!) But I encourage you to look this up for yourselves! See what you can find! Why do you do the things you do? Why do you celebrate how you do? I do not mean to judge anyone by posting this... I mostly posted this so that others know where I stand on these issues. and to encourage others to think about what they are celebrating, and why. :-)

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.

1 Corinthians 10:31

Here is the article I found online:

Where did many Christmas traditions come from? Rudolph the red nose reindeer, Santa Claus, Christmas trees. Did you ever wonder where these things started? No, I am not forgetting the birth of Jesus. This lens however, only deals with things we think of as being associated with the celebration of Christmas.

History of Candy Canes Where did candy canes come from?

In the 1600's when Christmas trees began, people used baked items to decorate them. The sugary sticks called candy canes were popular. They were only white and just straight sticks. In Germany, a choir master at the Cologne Cathedral put the hook on the end to look like a shepherd's hook. Supposedly he passed them out the the children during the long services to keep them quiet. Later on, stripes were added. Nobody knows for sure when, but sometime around the turn of the century candy canes with green and red stripes began to appear.

History of the Christmas Tree Why do we put up Christmas Trees?

As far back as the Romans, even perhaps before, people thought evergreen trees would help ward off evil spirits. During winter, these trees would remind them that green would eventually come back.

However, what we call the modern Christmas Tree was first done in Germany in the 1500s. Christians began decorating their homes with evergreen trees and branches. Some made structures that resembled the pyramid shape of trees out of wood. Lighted candles on the tree are credited to Martin Luther. Luther used candles to resemble the bright stars he had seen one night.

In the United States, the Christmas tree was not something well-known until about 1830. Germans in America had put up trees before, but this was the time when they were put up in public. Before that, early Americans thought that like these were pagan. In fact, the Puritans wanted to keep Christmas sacred. It was not to be a joyful occasion. How crazy is that? They even made laws that were current up to the 18th century against decorating and caroling!

Then it happened. Boom! Almost overnight Christmas trees sprang to life and became a symbol of Christmas! What happened? In England, Queen Victoria and her husband, Prince Albert (who was German), were seen in a drawing standing next to a Christmas Tree! The Victorians had to do it! It spread across the ocean, as America was enthralled with the Victorians as well.

By the time 1900's came, Christmas Trees were well-entrenched and decorations became a big business. Who can imagine Christmas without a tree and all the trimmings? Many companies started making ornaments, but most Americans still liked home made items and edible treats on their trees. Electric lights soon appeared as well. What town, city, or community does not have a Christmas Tree now?

History of Santa Claus Who is Santa Claus? St. Nicholas ?

In the third century, a monk named St. Nicholas lived near what is now Turkey. He is said to have devoted his life to giving away money, food, and other items so others could live and survive. He was the saint of children and sailors.

A feast in St. Nicholas' honor was held on December 6th, the day he died.

Apparently his legend and honor traveled all over the known world. Holland, for some reason, embraced him the most. The Dutch name for St. Nicholas was a shortened version known as Sinter Klass. Some Dutch in America gathered on December 6th to honor the death of St. Nicholas in 1773. The name Santa Claus was just a natural evolution of Sinter Klass. It was Washington Irving in the early 1800's that wrote about Sinter Klass and even called him the patron saint of New York. This really set off the Santa explosion.Santa Claus had all sorts of different images as to what he looked like.

Gift giving took off as well in the 1800's and many stores had advertisements with Santa Claus, or their version. It was not until Clement Moore wrote 'Twas the Night Before Christmas, or as it was originally called, A Visit From St. Nicholas, that our current image was born. Thomas Nast in 1881 used this writing to draw his version of what Santa Claus looked like. His artwork appeared in Harper's Weekly. It showed Santa as a fat, jolly man, with a white beard, red suit, white fur, bag of toys, etc. Nast tossed in some elves, the workshop, North Pole, and Mrs Claus for good measure!

Variations of Santa Claus Around the World How about these Santa Claus-like traditions?

Italy has La Befana La Befana is a friendly witch that shows up on January 5th to deliver gifts to Italian children. La Befana comes down the chimney and warns with either a bell or a cane. The bell means La Befana will leave gifts. The Cane means La Befana will leave only coal because of bad children.

France has Pere Noel He has sort of an evil twin, Pere Fouchette. Pere Noel and Pere Fouchette visit the children in France. The children leave their shoes out. If the have been good, Pere Noel fills them with gifts. If they have been bad, Pere Fouchette leaves switches.

Russis has Ded Moroz During New Years, Ded Moroz (Father Frost) delivers gifts to children. Ded Moroz has a granddaughter named Snegurochka.

China has Dun Che Lao Ren Dun Che Lao Ren is Christmas Old Man. He brings gifts to families that celebrate Sheng Dan Jieh. Sheng Dan Jieh means roughly the Holy Birth.

Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer! Who is Rudolph?

In 1939, Montgomery Ward wanted something to give out during Christmas to promote the store. Robert May came up with what was really a comic book detailing the story of one of Santa's reindeer, Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer. His red nose was almost nixed as it could be seen as coming from drinking. But the little book came out and the rest is history. A short cartoon came out in the late 1940's. Yeah, Rudolph was pretty popular but who knew he would really take off and fly! In 1949, Gene Autry rocketed Rudolph to the top of the charts with his song, Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer. The song lyrics written by Johnny Marks was a little different from the story that May wrote. But who cares? In 1964, Rudolph reached stellar heights when his story was made as a stop-motion animation film with Burl Ives. Who cannot have a Christmas without that movie?

History of the Christmas Stocking Why do we hang stockings by the chimney?

The legend of St. Nicholas gives us this tradition. A poor man and his daughters were living in a time when to be married, fathers needed dowries. This poor father thought that his daughters would never be married and be poor with him all their lives. One night they had washed their stockings and hung them by their fireplace to dry. St. Nicholas walking by just happened to see them. He tossed some gold coins in the chimney and they landed in the stockings! Children all over the world began to leave mostly shoes out for St. Nicholas to fill. The story A visit from Saint Nick written by Clement Moore was the first to really mention hanging stockings by the chimney. Isn't it amazing that most of the things that we think of as being what a real Christmas is, consists of things that are barely 150 years old!

Where do other Christmas symbols come from? Holly? Mistletoe? Wreaths? Poinsettias?

Why do we use holly?

Holly is evergreen and has been revered as sacred for ages. The thorns also symbolize Christ's crown of thorns. The Romans and other ancients thought it could ward off evil spirits.

Why do we hang bells? The ring in sorrow and happiness. Bells are also said to ward off evil spirits. Bells are hung high in churches to be a way of ringing in heaven.

Why do we hang wreaths on the door? Romans bent evergreen boughs in ring shapes and put them on doors to ward off evil. It also symbolized good health. Sometimes these wreaths were exchanged as gifts.

Why do we hang mistletoe and kiss? Again, mistletoe is green in the winter as was thought of to bring good luck. It's berries have been thought of as inducing love and fertility. Kissing may have began with the Romans. If there are no berries, you are not supposed to kiss anymore. You are supposed to remove a berry when you kiss. Be careful as mistletoe is poisonous.

Why do we show Poinsettia plants? Poinsettias were 'discovered' by Joel Poinsett in Mexico. He was the first U.S. ambassador to Mexico back in the middle 1800's. Mexicans had used them to decorate on Christmas Eve. The red or colored foilage, is not a blossom. Only colored leaves. They are star-shaped and apparently were considered as Flores de Noche Buena (flowers for the holy night). The Paul Ecke Ranch in California produces most of the ones used in the United States. They are not poisonous, but can be irritating to the skin. National Poinsettia Day is December 12th, declared by congress. This was the day of their 'discovery.'

Christmas Triva Some little know facts and tid bits about Christmas!

The song Jingle Bells was written in 1857 for a Sunday School in Boston for Thanksgiving. But, it just became so popular that it went on to be big at singing at Christmas time.

Santa's 9th reindeer was first named Rollo, then Reginald, then of course, Rudolph.

The two biggest selling songs of Christmas are White Christmas, followed by Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer.

The first Christmas cards were printed in 1875 by Louis Prang in his shop in Roxbury, Massachusetts.

In 1836, Alabama became the first state to declare Christmas as a holiday.

Oregon produces the most Christmas trees of any state.

Pope Julius I declared December 25th as the official Christmas in the fourth century.

The first president to have an official Christmas tree was Franklin Pierce. Teddy Roosevelt banned them during his terms.

The Salvation Army began collecting at Christmas in 1891 San Francisco.

Silent Night was written in 1818 by an Austrian priest, Joseph Mohr.

We will always love and remember you

I thought I would do a quick post. We lost 'our' little one 31 days ago.

We think it's important to remember the babies that we never get the chance to formally meet ♥
We bought this little bear in memory of 'our' little baby that I carried and we never got to formally meet (Miss-carried Oct 18, 2010) We will always love and remember you! ♥
(The white bracelet in it's arm was my hospital bracelet).

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

15 days ago, while we were in Winnipeg, I miss carried our little baby, I didn't have a physically difficult time, but I'm sure I'll be emotional about it for a long time. I'm so glad we were surrounded by family, and that we had planned a two night get-away to a cabin in the Whiteshell. We were still able to go with just the two of us and relax.

Matthew and I were watching an interview of a couple on tv tonight. This couple had lost a little girl (she carried her little girl for a long time knowing that this baby wouldn't be able to live outside of her womb). Apparently she has a blog and a book now...(Angie Smith) She also wrote the song below, I thought it was very sweet. Here is a link to the audio version (click here)



There were photographs i wanted to take
Things i wanted to show you
Sing sweet lullabies wipe your teary eyes
Who could love you like this?
people say that i am brave but i`m not
Truth is i`m barely hanging on
But there`s a greater story
Written long before me
Because He loves you like this

So i will carry you
While your heart beats here
Long beyond the empty cradle
Through the coming years
I will carry you
All my life
And i will praise the One who`s chosen me
To carry you

Such a short time
Such a long road
All this madness
But i know
That the silence
Has brought me to His voice
And He says

I`ve shown her photographs of time beginning
Walked her through the parted seas
Angel lullabies no more teary eyes
Who could love her like this?

I will carry you
While your heart beats here
Long beyond the empty cradle
Through the coming years
I will carry you
All your life
And i will praise the One who`s chosen me
To carry you